Rosebud Woman: Keep your Vagina Healthy and Happy
Rosebud Products to Keep your Vag Moisturized and smelling good

Rosebud Women asked me to try their new vaginal skincare products complimentary. I said yes because it fits right in with my style! I talk about sex a lot which means I’m always on the lookout when it comes to self-care products geared towards women. Especially when enhancing the sexual experience or vaginal health. But, unless it’s lube there’s not a lot of options for us. When it comes to keeping your vagina healthy and happy, it’s pretty much a “figure it out on your own” mentality. Which I often find myself doing. When did people get so afraid to talk about vaginas?

Rosebud Woman Skincare for your vagina

A lot of women look for products geared to keeping their vagina healthy. Whether moisturizing, calming, keeping the pH balanced or having it smell like roses. Rosebud's Ritual Travel Kit covers feeling good before, during and after sex. Their products are 100% natural ingredients with no synthetics. This is important to me! Always find natural products when it has to do with any of your downtown areas.

Rosebud Woman products are all about vaginal care. Because you’re beautiful and it’s smart to take care of your vaginal health. Also, keeping it real, sometimes after a marathon session of sex it’s nice to pamper yourself. Your vagina will thank you.

The packaging is classy and the smell is wonderful too. These products can sit right on your vanity with your favorite beauty products.

The Rosebud Travel Kit is $10 and a great price to test out mini versions of:

  Honor - Everyday Balm: For skin regeneration and moisture retention.

Honor - Everyday Balm: For skin regeneration and moisture retention.

  Soothe - Calming Cream: For inflamed, irritated swollen, or tender skin.

Soothe - Calming Cream: For inflamed, irritated swollen, or tender skin.

  Arouse - Stimulating Serum: For increased blood flow and lubrication.

Arouse - Stimulating Serum: For increased blood flow and lubrication.

  Refresh - Cleansing Spray: For odor neutralizing, hydrating, and Ph balancing.

Refresh - Cleansing Spray: For odor neutralizing, hydrating, and Ph balancing.

I look forward to trying these products in the next few weeks especially the Arouse and Honor. What's your first impression of these products? Let me know in the comments!

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P.S. I’m not getting paid for this post and I don’t get a commission on sales.

90-Day Sex Rule
90 Day Sex Rule

The 90-day rule refers to when a person waits 90 days in a new relationship to have sex. Usually, it refers to the woman waiting 90 days but it can apply to anyone. You shouldn't put so much pressure on the sex part of a starting a relationship. Your first instinct should be, if you even like the person you’re dating. Now, if you know me, I don’t judge. You can get it on, the first date, after 90 days or never. You have to do what works best for you. Don't do the 90 days to trap a guy. If a guy has a hit it and quit it mentality. No amount of days will change that f*ckboy.

I do think if you like a person and you don’t want your feelings hurt that it’s good to wait a bit before sex. So you can get to know the person. But if you feel you got to know them on that first date and you can’t hold back. Then go for it! You have to listen to yourself. Create your own social norms. Since I keep it 100 with y’all. I’ve never had sex on the first date. That’s because I usually don’t know how I completely feel about someone until around date number 3. Then It’s a few more dates until I’m ready to see some D. Now I said a few dates I didn’t say 90 days. That’s MY timeline though.

Anyway, if you decide to do the 90-day rule you should still hint to the person that you’d like to take things slow. You don’t have to outright say you’re doing the 90-day rule. Gage their response, pay attention to body language and follow up questions. If you tell someone that and they still try to pressure you that’s red flag number one.

If sex is important, make sure to get intimate in other ways during the 90 days. Since if they can’t make out or kiss. You can throw the whole plan away because the sex might end up being trash at the end of this. So check out their make out and dry hump technique. That’s what you’ll have to work with later… naked.  I speak for the sexually charged women. If you don’t care what his D game is. Carry on with the 90 days.

I don’t agree with the 90-day rule because it’s a rule. When it comes to relationships you can’t always have strict rules. You have to live and let things flow. Things can get complicated and you can miss out on fun moments when you stick to rules.  Especially when there is no one size fits all rules when it comes to sex. People have gotten married after hooking up the first night they met. While people have waited 90 days to get screwed over and their feelings hurt. It’s best to get to know the person that you’re dating and be open-minded about when the next step will be. Listen to yourself and make your own decisions.

WATCH THE VIDEO: 90 Day Rule

What are your thoughts on the 90-day rule? Let me know in the comments! 

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Underrated Sex Position
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Today we're going to talk about an underrated sex position. It's got a bad rap and I don't understand why. I’m talking about the missionary position. I'm talking about that old-fashioned vintage sex. People like to pretend they don’t love missionary. Even though most of them do it all the time! If you don’t love missionary here are 2 simple tips to fix that. If you don’t know what missionary is, good luck I can’t help you. But Google can!

BE ACTIVE ON THE BOTTOM

Now, how to make missionary fun? People don't enjoy missionary because the person on the bottom isn't participating. The top is sweating their ass off doing thrusting planks while the other person lays there. It’s a workout to be on top. Get involved to make it more fun. If you’re on the bottom you can move around - thrust back, grab their ass, touch their body, become part of the missionary. This will make it more enjoyable for both of you.

DON’T MAKE IT YOUR ONLY POSITION

Another reason people hate missionary is that it’s the only position they do. If you're only doing one position then, of course, you’re going to hate it. Switch it up sometimes and then go back to missionary. You’ll find it more enjoyable when you come back to it after awhile. It’s very intimate. You can lock eyes, talk dirty etc.

I enjoy a lot of positions, but missionary will always be an oldie but goodie. You should learn to love it cause at the end of the day. You’re still having sex and that’s awesome!

WATCH THE VIDEO: BEST SEX POSITION

What are some other tips to make the missionary position more fun? Let me know in the comments!

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WHAT DOES THIRSTY MEAN?
What Does Thirsty Mean

Let’s chat about the word “thirsty.” If you guys don't know what it means, it’s when a guy (or girl) is showing a lot of interest in someone they’re attracted to. When a girl feels a guy is giving too much attention she might call him “thirsty.” In the girl’s eyes, he's doing too much. Yes, there are creepy guys out there that are annoying - they call 24/7, text too much etc. I'm not talking about those guys. I'm talking about a nice cute guy that starts to show interest in you. Then, because he’s showing interest instead of ignoring you, he gets call thirsty.

Let me break this down. If you like a guy and he makes effort to get to know you, that's not a bad thing. That’s what you want. Someone you like, to like you back. If you call a guy thirsty because he doesn’t wait 6 hours to text you back. Then the problem is with you and your self-worth. Let me reiterate I’m not talking about creepy guys. I'm talking about normal guys, doing normal things to date you.

We have this idea that chasing a guy that’s not interested is cool. Whereas a guy showing he’s available is a turn-off. We need to shift those ideas. It’s not cool to be into the guy that doesn't show any interest in you. That hardly texts you back, makes dates and breaks them. That’s wack AF.

A guy that calls you when he says he's going to call you, texts you back right away and makes plans is not thirsty. That is a guy about his business and doesn't have time for games. You deserve a guy to treat you well. You don’t deserve to chase a guy that gives you half his time. I don’t like the term thirsty because sometimes it applies to guys trying to date the right way. We shouldn’t discourage that. We should embrace the attention as how a healthy relationship starts.

WATCH THE VIDEO: HE’S THIRSTY

What are your thoughts on the word “thirsty?” Let me know in the comments.

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